As for bristle worms, just leave them alone, they are great detrivores in an aquarium and as other have pointed out, will serve as part of your cleanup crew. (so don't bother with the arrow crab).
For aiptasia, the best method to rid them in a tank that size would be peppermint shrimp. Not sure they would get along with a cleaner shrimp though.
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