you guys are being dramatic, im trying to say get over it and move on. if you get screwed by somebody, it's up to the individual to recall who they do and dont want to do buisness with in the future. I'm just not a big fan of judging a book by it's cover, and i would give a damn about the "rating" a person had. However you guys decide to do buisness is on you, i'll be buying the stuff from the people everybody is afraid to deal with. If you get screwed during a buisness transaction, thats your own stupidity.
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